July 21, 2010

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Featured
San Diego Pride Parade picture.Photo. More than 60 UUs from throughout San Diego County participated in last Saturday's Pride Parade which drew thousands of spectators along a one-mile route from Hillcrest to Balboa Park. To see more photos, click on the photo. (Photos by Gwen Baldwin of Summit UU Fellowship, Mar Cárdenas of UUs of the South Bay and Cluster Webmaster Mike Hampson.)

Memorial Society. The following article was furnished by Russ Armstead, President of the San Diego Memorial Society. Thanks to Paul Marsh of First UU Church for putting us in touch with Russ.

The San Diego Memorial Society is a non-profit educational organization that seeks to help people make decisions about their funerals. The Society was begun in 1958 by a group of citizens from the UU Church in Hillcrest in reaction to the high cost of funerals. Over the ensuing years thousands of people have joined the Society in order to get dignified, economical funerals, whether cremation or internment. Today the San Diego Memorial Society has arrangements with nine different mortuaries throughout the county and one cemetery in National City.

The participating mortuaries and the cemetery have signed agreements with the Society to treat our members fairly and not force the purchase of products that are unnecessary. They will not attempt to encourage members to purchase services beyond that which was agreed upon between the mortuaries and the Society. At present we have arrangements with mortuaries for four distinct and all-inclusive plans: a simple cremation; a cremation with the remains transported either to a cemetery or for scattering at sea; a simple burial; and a traditional funeral with embalming, viewing and other services.

In 2010 the overriding purpose of San Diego Memorial Society is to inform all citizens of their rights and responsibilities relating to end of life issues. To that end, the Society acts somewhat like a better business bureau to identify mortuaries whose history illustrates good business practices for all customers. Each mortuary is vetted for solid performance and monitored for the continuation of these qualities.

Our members are given a list of these mortuaries and non-members can access these businesses via our web site sdmsonline.com. For further information contact the Society at (858) 391-1267 or use the web site.

Profiles. If you know an interesting UU in San Diego County you'd like to profile, please e-mail martin@kruming.com.

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Breaking News

Pride Parade. Thousands of spectators lined the streets of Hillcrest last Saturday to watch the annual Pride Parade, one of the most popular summertime events in San Diego. Here's a report from Gwen Baldwin of Summit UU Fellowship in Santee.

The Old Town Trolley (arranged by First UU Church in Hillcrest) was pretty full. Summit had 12 parasol folks, 1 or 2 marchers, and 4 folks on the trolley. There were also participants from First Church and its South Bay campus. I got to our area, practiced our (parasol) routine and then watched the parade until it was time to hop in with the group. I think the heat wave kept folks away. I had four cancellations because of it. Too bad since we ended up with a break in the weather. I will tell you that it was the fastest moving Pride Parades I have ever been in. Once we started, we just kept moving and the cool breeze was wonderful. The crowd was enthusiastic so the Parasol Team felt appreciated. I am sure the marchers felt so, too.

Greeting Visitors. Pat Parlin, Membership Chair at Chalice UU Congregation in Escondido, doesn't mince words: “Let us practice Radical Hospitality!” She views all members as greeters on Sunday morning and offers these thoughts about making visitors feel welcome. “Do you remember the first time you visited Chalice? What was your first impression? Were the people welcoming? Or were they so wrapped up in doing business that they hardly noticed you were there? Did you leave the service wanting to come back to learn more? Or did you decide to try another church that was more friendly?” Next week: More of Pat's thoughts about being a welcoming community—words that could apply to any UU congregation.

Datebook

Friday-Sunday/September 24-26/Camp Stevens in Julian. The Annual UU Women Together Retreat is open to all women in the San Diego Cluster. Contact Benita Berkson at 4benita@cox.net or (619) 994- 0993.

Saturday/October 2/First Church.
San Diego County Cluster Workshop on Diversity from 9 a.m. to 2:30 p.m. Contact Joan Cudhea at (858) 272-4118 or jcudhea@earthlink.net.

Saturday/November 6/Chalice.
4th Annual Art & Crafts Faire. Contact chaliceartguild@msn.com.

Cluster Buzz
Choir Director. Summit UU Fellowship is looking for a Choir Director. Interested persons should contact Music Chair Ed Henry at ehenry@mail.sdsu.edu. The annual salary ranges from $3,000.00 to $3,500.00 depending on experience.

Generosity. The operating budget at Palomar UU Fellowship for 2010-2011 increases the hours of the Music Director and the Director of Religious Education.

Quotable. “The ministerial search process is on schedule to find a new minister.” —Chalice UU Congregation.

San Diego County UU Bulletin Board. If you want to buy, sell, barter or connect, and it's legal and ethical, e-mail martin@kruming.com (or copy and paste: martin@kruming.com).

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Welcome to the San Diego County Unitarian Universalist Network (cluster) newsletter.

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The San Diego County Unitarian Universalist Network comprises five Unitarian Universalist congregations:

Chalice
(Escondido),
First Church (Hillcrest),
Palomar (Vista),
San Dieguito
(Solana Beach),
First Church
(Chula Vista)
and
Summit (Santee).


Here are some
other useful links:


Temecula Valley

UURISE

CA Legislative Ministry

Pacific Southwest District

Camp de Benneville Pines

Unitarian Universalist Association